Vegan problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

i have been a vegan for a very very very long time now (since i was 8) i understand that cows need to be milked and stuff but you dont have to milk them with machines for money. well that isnt the problem, the problem is that my family knows im a vegan but for some reason my cousins started teasing me about it after all these years. like for my birthday i got all leather clothing, except for one that was wool. and for my birthday side snack my cousins told my mom and friends that theyll work(my cousins) at the food stand. what they did was they canceled everything and ordered bacon ham pizza and cheeseburgers! what do they have against me!? it might be a cruel joke but why did they have to do it on my birthday! :'(